The Handmaid's Tale
After reading The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood, I was struck by the relationship the Commander initiates with Offred, and his willingness to break the rules of Gilead. On pg 158, he says his wife doesn't understand him, they hardly talk, and that they don't have much in common. Offred thinks it's the same old thing; the rationale men use to justify cheating on their wives.
The women are held to a higher standard, and on pg.167 she talks about the Wives buying Soul Scrolls, as it is a sign of piety and faithfulness to the regime and helps their husbands' careers. There is a double standard in Gilead, and the men feel justified to have mistresses, and still follow the old ways, while reading the Bible and holding Prayvaganzas. I think Atwood is showing that even with the extreme religious society of Gilead, the women are the oppressed and have lost any freedom that they had, while the men continue to experience the forbidden pleasures. In the instance at the gentlemen's club, on pg. 237, the Commander says, "You can't cheat Nature. Nature demands variety, for men. It stands to reason, it's part of the procreational strategy. It's Nature's plan." He justifies his behavior blaming it on Nature, and uses his power and position in the patriarchal society to control her.